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Is Gossiping Good or Bad?

Talk about human in this wide world, what do you think first?
Male-female, old-young, adult-little, kind-evil, good looking-bad looking, fat-slim, and many more. Don't think much antonym above! Just take one of them, it is "kind-evil" or you can change to "good-bad". It must be good behavior and bad behavior.
In this world, people have their own characters. May be some of them are in your side, but remember! Some others have different ways with you. Just say that i don't like gossiping, and i always wanna avoid it, yeah...i effort to leave it. But, in other way people around me like doing gossip, and i have no rights at all to stop them. If i want them to stop gossiping, then they will say that i am freak, i am suck, and other bad words they tell me.
As nobody of theirs, i can't do many things. Start from gossiping, then it may be backstabbing. In gossiping, we talk much about somebody else's badness and their mistakes. We make it as topic of talk. Terrible! What if we get wrong? Do we know exactly the truth? Nope! We know nothing, but we comment. Right?
It hurts people you gossip. So much! Their sins are given to you, and they get the rewards of yours, indeed. But, they actually still feel hurted if they know that you gossip them.
I was gossiped. I was backstabbed. I was discriminated. They hurted me. Really! Uh! I don't mean to share, sorry...
That's why i try to quit from gossiping activity.
Gossiping is in bad deed cathegory, and Allah dislike it. Because in a surah:
إن الله يحب المحسنين (المئدة:١٣)
Allah loves people whom do goodness.
If you wanna be loved by Allah, so just escape from gossiping! Just leave badness! Let's effort together, Good People! ^_^
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